"Infidelity"

"Infidelity" A habit or a disease? I believe that infidelity is lack of self-love and courage to face their problems, seeking solace or what their partners are not ...

What happens to these people? What really happens to your brain?

There is something abnormal in people who are unfaithful, it is not possible to relate to another couple or many others at every opportunity that comes their way, something is wrong with them because they are addicted to having many contacts are mythmakers or lacking affection, sexually and psychologically immature.

In some studies found to be of the infidels, they found a specific gene that is common to all people who are unfaithful to their partners, and concludes that the issue is psychobiological.

If a person does not have a stable relationship is because you still have some unfinished business of his childhood in psychoanalysis could not yet understand how power was with the parents "Oedipus complex" or even can not find something or someone who is looking for ...

There is no respect for the person you are (and therefore do not want your partner ... Say what you will), knowing that he will damage his conduct and still do! .. Again and again!

People who commit infidelity repeatedly, is that children bring from their great dissatisfaction which is probably linked to a lack of caring or of the person / s that were significant / s for them. The unfaithful person is unaware that his attitude is due to the lack of which has but feels an inner need that drives her to try to bridge the gap that no one can fill maintaining emotional relationships or sexual relations with different people. Infidelity is closely related to the mythomania, since it is a characteristic of one who commits it.

Profile of the infidel:

Apart from pathological unfaithful, the most susceptible of all, there is the ordinary, the no pathology. Whenever possible we have seen more male infidelity, yet it is clear that those with better self-esteem and suffer fewer emotional deprivation are less likely to be infiel.Aunque there are no physical or psychiatric identifying the traits being unfaithful if they do q caer.El more susceptible to cheating is distant, away from the problems and avoid listening to what your partner is saying. (This is part of the guilt they feel when deceiving infidels to your partner and prefer not to look into his eyes, or do as little as possible). Although there are no physical or psychic being unfaithful to identify if there are features that become more susceptible to falling.

The reasons for (a) cheating:

Psychologists believe that infidelity occurs a gap in the relationship.

It has always been said that man is unfaithful to sexual experience, curiosity, need to feel admired and prove his manhood, or that fears of abandonment and instead soledad.La woman can be unfaithful not to be recognized, valued and little can be re protegida.También infidels that they have been at some time, becoming insecure and distrustful. Perhaps establishing more clearly the nature of betrayal or infidelity is the secrecy and lies, (based Alibis arguments of "necessity of privacy" of the infidel or space), the fact that a situation with a third party is held outside the knowledge of the couple because of emotional or sexual implications, whether explicit or implicit, more accurately defines what it means infidelity than any other description of behaviors or situations.

Infidelity has not changed much in the number of people, what happens is that it starts every time, earlier. They prefer the sporadic adventures before long loving relationships.

The double standard remains but the behavior of men and unfaithful women are becoming more similar.

However, attitudes betray but the perception it should work. Women and men can tell if their partner is cheating, but they should drop the veil of pride for viewing.

Facing the crisis:

When the couple or entire confesses infidelity, there are no easy ways to face the crisis, and no reason to serve as an excuse. The effects are devastating and suffer a strong emotional shock and painful. Betrayal destroys the trust and security he or she felt about her partner, attacks your self-esteem and feel inferior, yet still feel a great emotional dependence on their partner.

What should be clear is that solutions do exist to overcome this situation and overcome the crisis, but this requires that the deceived leave the role of victim, communication between partners must be fully open, it should analyze the reasons why they are unhappy in your relationship, and must consider whether the reasons for their relationship (love, trust, stability) are still valid.

We must act accordingly, with patience, with lots of deep faith, and ignoring the pain or anger. We must always remember that human love is a reflection of divine love.

Psych. Ruth Karina Aliaga Falcon.

C.Ps.P 10493