In the bottom of any compulsive need to control, security. Approval and separation, is crouching Fear

In the bottom of any compulsive need to control, Security, Approval and separation of subject is lurking fear, ask yourself do you fear (¯`?'¯) ??'¯) ¸. ☆ ¸. ✿ ¸. • ° * "~ ƸӜƷ ~" * ° •. · ☆ '¸. ✿''¯ `•. ¸ ¸. ི ♥ ྀ. ღ (¯ `v'¯)`*.¸.*`*.¸.* meditates If you feel insecure about the only fact of the existence of the impermanence of things, everything changes, the uncertainty is the most certain and safe our lives. Learn to feel confident in uncertainty gives you power and that power only manage to live intensely and passionately the here and now. The only sure thing. It's what you have in this sacred moment in your hands dive in and enjoy it otherwise deliver it. Does not exist.

If the fear comes from your need to control events, people and things, meditate on the stupidity of perfect resistance to the flow of life, meditate on the absurdity of wanting or pretending to control another human being when the reality of life confronts you again and again with the idea that anyone, anything, even ourselves, we belong. Release control and trust in life and sacred process is imperative to us. Releasing our children, our spouses, live and let live. Stop wanting to get results, expectations drop events and finally we flow like pigeons in the wind coinciding with whom we have to match and enjoying the results that the destination is always for our greater good.

If the fear comes from your need to be appreciated, valued and honored by others or someone special, I say forget it! Do not waste your time, energy and prove to be what you are not put aside the cowardice and dare to be what you are, be true, and if they do not like bad luck. The most important is your self-concept and believe deserve love and be loved as you are.

The compulsive need to separation and isolation are the fear of losing freedom, space and individuality, against commitments really are not going to be able to meet, fear of living feeling imprisoned, unable to preserve dominated Your sacred space that does not have to enter No . We have the right to preserve our sacred space without having to isolate ourselves in solitude. Mature relationships with these spaces allow us to safeguard individual privacy, the respected and preserved because they know that we recreate and we transformed and renewed. The fear of living together comes from your inability to set limits on living together and this in itself is not a problem among adults and carried out. Likewise, the compulsive need SEPARATION in other cases, the underlying fear obedecet subject, others know their faults and weaknesses, the person feels too exposed, and really not interested in others or discover the hidden dark side of his personality. This also exceeded, dear friends, we are all made of mud, and the shadow just have to recognize, accept, take responsibility and integrating once we do this really, what else will be added just, peaceful coexistence is the rule, not the exception.

Finally free of the fears that hide these four basic human needs allow us access to levels of interpersonal relationships more effective, harmonious and sustainable course in the long term, that fear and channel it properly we can see, to give way what deep down we all want to love and be loved.

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