I Kill The Impatience

Dear readers and friends, I apologize to you for the time I have not written for personal reasons was unable to finish this article, but I think it was worth the wait. This time I continue with the next in the list of the qualities of a successful woman and is nothing more and nothing less than patience. Patience is an exercise of love, trust and humility that makes us grow as people, not passivity as many believe, failure to react or simply hold it is a symbol of strength, to accept with serenity the pain and the evidence must overcome, we grow internally and act firmly to the contradictions that arise in life. I think that patience is a virtue that we all possess, I in particular used to be very impatient, want immediate results, especially for yesterday used to say, all that anxiety brought impatience, frustration, disappointment and even disillusionment, failing to achieve all my short-term goals, you know that friend? Pegunta made him so God, who of course were not immediately answered when I wanted, the truth is I had no choice but to be patient and wait for my answers with great faith and humility until God's time came and I think I got all my answers one after another, barely had time to process, that was a revolution, my life changed from heaven to earth in just one year, which perfectly just had to have a little patience, remain positive, continue to be proactive, continue to cultivate my personal growth and not faint, always doing things with enthusiasm and patience.

Most of the time the rush us from enjoying the present, every moment in our lives that only you can enjoy with a good dose of patience. Patience is a quality that allows us to see clearly the cause of the problems and how best to solve them, is that "NO" allows us to be filled with anger at a situation that bothers us, leads us to accept life as we have had to live and I mean all those events that are beyond our control; also think that is a hallmark of maturity, with the passing of the years we learn to give things time to be given, always facing the life with optimism, calm, cheerful learning from our successes and our failures.

TIPS FOR GROWING THE PATIENT 1 .- Be patient with yourself, the person who lives the value of patience, sensitivity has to deal with adversity to remain calm and inner balance, achieving a better understanding of the origin of the circumstances, projecting peace and harmony around you. 2 .- Have patience with all those around you. Your children: When you feel you're starting to lose patience, stop immediately, go to your room, wash your face, take a deep breath and change the course of the circumstance, but would never ever lose patience with your child, avoid anger all costs, because you'll be the one to carry this pain within themselves, children are so kind, are what give you happiness, do not think a bad memory or trauma carried by the rest of his life, just because a days lost patience. Your family, everyone has their own character and the very fact should make us love them to accept and respect the way of being of everyone, and if love is not what drives us, because that is respected, but never you face a family that's a losing battle and has no reward whatsoever.

Co-workers: There's always one or another partner or we do not like trying to make life impossible, never give him the wrath of opportunity to act for you, hold your humility and your respect to all and true as the person learns and change their attitude towards you, but you must be very patient because these internal changes do not happen overnight. Vendors, taxi drivers, any employee with whom you have to deal with: Stand in the place of those people do not know how was your day, or what the problem may have in their homes, if they are frowned upon or not directed to you so polite, just answer them with a smile, chances are they happy day. 3 .- Have patience with all those events in your life: disease, poverty, heartbreak, loss of a loved one, even the minor setbacks but which occur in your day to day: the poor reception of your cell phone, traffic congestion that makes you late for any place that you forget some stuff from work, an unexpected visit, which will burn the food, which damaged the car when you need it most and stop counting, all things that can happen, why needlessly upset you?, if you give too much importance to these things, will never have life, caught rages every day.

When you are faced with a situation that bothers you, take a deep breath and ask yourself if it is really worth mortify, think of something that you like and go pass the page, take care of the serious issues of your life and help your child learn to read, save for the house you want to buy or the business you undertake in order to focus on your goals and your energy reserves to achieve them. An interesting and very convenient for the patient is made to save money, because no matter the quantity or the frequency with which they accumulate, the evidence leads us to the amount needed to purchase the latest model car we crave, that trip we so desire, the house of our dreams, and so on. If we take the view of the objective, we will end up spending what little we have met, and our goal will be increasingly distant and unreachable, so the desire and patience give us the strength to not spend and resist the urge to buy anything we like and thus achieve our goal. Having patience will always give us fruit: maintain and improve relationships with partners and children, friends, family, coworkers, will help us get the results you want in all those projects that have dedicated time and effort.

DALIA